Think carefully about inviting us back after a first date – Yes, we might well ask you but that doesn’t necessarily mean we want you to say yes.
Never empty your glass – You might be shaking like a leaf and nothing would settle your nerves more than to knock back the glass of wine on your table, but trust me, it’s not worth it.If you want to stay in control of the date and keep him interested then take it easy and don’t overindulge.Just depends on what type of person you are looking for. I'm no lesbian but I am sure the women are JUST as cool as the men and they are are attractive too (beautiful shapes, I am sure you can agree! My ex's two sisters are very quiet girls and SMART like a few other Cameroonian girls I have met. the only slight difference might be if she is from the francophone part - trust me, i should know - am part Cameroonian! As far as Nigerian (you) and Cammy (her), culturally I am sure there are some differences considering the history btn Nigeria and Cameroon but not all people are closed minded and Cameroonians that I know are pretty cool so I dont think you will have a problem. Gosh you just gave me some memories LOL.^^just curious- when did your cameroonian boyfriend become your ex.i seem to remember you were very much into him you really dating 190 or is it another nler who snatched you from the cameroonian guy.^^That is a good question. My Cammy and I broke up before this NL thing but he was still around as it was hard for us to part, it's complicated. Ruu Die: You'll be surprised that they are quite as advanced there, as we are here. I bet everyone wants to know what I believe a Non-African woman should know before dating an African men. Okay before I begin let me just say: Am I saying all African men are the same? Here’s a list of what you can expect so you are well prepared: 1) Henny, dark liquor, Stout, or Heinkein or other heavy beers are their drink of choice. Oyinbo/Akata: Have at least a case in your house, if your man drinks alcohol and comes to your place and sees you have some, he will be a happy man. No African man is always going to want to do take out or go to a restaurant all the time. 3) Meat and fish are your best friend: I don’t care, I have yet to meet an African man that doesn’t like meat or fish.
However, our fine brothers have started looking into other ethnicities and are beginning to date interracially (putting their chocolate cookie in sugar cookies, raisin cookies, and Macadamia cookies) and it’s okay. There are lots of handsome men out there, in different continents and countries so I’m here to give advice on some things a Non African woman should have in the back of her head when dating an African man. A Nigerian man loves with his belly amongst other things. Oyinbo/Akata: Cook your favorite meals, make sure it’s good, Nigerian men are spoiled by the sweet taste of their mother’s cooking so you are going to have to put that work in the kitchen.Let say, you are looking for a friend to have lunch together. This is like an universal rule in Cameroon, no matter how your relationship with the other person, but if you are a man, you pay.In your mind, ok, we will pay by ourselves because it is just a lunch and there's no special occassion, but in fact, when you ask your coworker to go with you, it can mean that you will pay for him/ her. So it's better to make the 'lunch' as something that you both agreed on, no one invites the other. It's good to be a woman in Cameroon, but then, sometimes you will be wondering why your male coworkers never invite you to come over for lunch, because in their mind, if they ask you so, they will have to pay. God has blessed and created the most beautiful, handsome, manly men in Africa. : Even if you don’t like to cook, try and cook a few meals a week. A Nigerian man wants to be able to know that you can properly feed him. Dealing with an African men takes lots of patience, the only reason why we, African women have an easier time handling them is only because we are surrounded by them constantly and grew up around them, I know they can be frustrating at times.If your date becomes your boyfriend then there will be plenty of opportunities for both of you to let your hair down.