So, let's start off with the things we know (or at least the things we think we know).
I will also provide tested strategies to help you break through the rut.
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Specifically, you should try to directly reference something that was mentioned in his or her profile rather than writing a generic message to someone. Another reason that you may not be finding any success is that you’re not giving yourself enough options on the dating apps and sites.For example, asking a person how he or she became interested in rock climbing is far more likely to get a response than sending a message that simply says, “What’s up? For example, while you may be interested in meeting someone who’s within five miles from you and falls into a certain age range, there may only be a few people who meet this description.It’s not my place to judge, but everyone’s entitled to his/her preferences.Write to more Indian men and your response rate should go up by 15%.Unlike most of the lookie-loos who read free blogs and newsletters and don’t try anything different, you put your money where your mouth is and invested in Finding the One Online. However, there are a few variables that might be affecting your experience…and I’d just like to point them out to you. In this famous Ok Cupid blog post, Ok Cupid takes great pains to illustrate that while women think that 80% of men are BELOW AVERAGE in attractiveness, men actually have a fair appraisal of women’s attractiveness.
And now you want to know when the payoff is going to come. Since I don’t know you at all, I’m just going to be objective and theorize why you might not be doing as well as you’d like. And while they still write disproportionately to the best looking 33% of women, normal women still get plenty of attention online.
It's the only picture we have up, and we have our favorite drink in our hand.
Even better, since the chick probably wants to see our body, we have our shirt pulled up to show our “not-so-defined” abs as well. Because we are nice guys pretending to be cool to get women. We're consistently blasting out roughly 100 different messages by copying and pasting the same, “Hey beautiful, what's up? Yes, we get the occasional message back, but we still really struggle to get anything decent. Our typical conclusion is she's a player or into the “bad boys” who are more ripped than we are.
Here are the eight key reasons why this kind of dating isn’t going your way, and more importantly, what you can do to turn things around.1. When it comes to finding that special someone, it’s important to remember that dating is a numbers game.
And rather than only joining a few dating apps and sites and therefore only being available to a few people, you should put the odds in your favor by signing up for more so that you can increase the number of people in your dating pool.2. Along these lines, if you want dating apps and sites to work for you, then you have to commit to continually signing in to the app or site, sometimes every day, in order to see and be seen by the greatest number of potential dates.
Before you start – ensure your profile is looking its best before you send anything.