(It will never be exactly the same for two different people.) Assess Your Proclivity for Indulgences While many behaviors in the extreme form represent a problem or even an addiction, some of those same behaviors can be harmless if not taken to the extreme.Consider a list of activities that fall on the hedonistic end of the behavioral spectrum: drinking alcohol, gambling, shopping, traveling, and spending, for example.
While this is not massively a problem and a lot of women like older men partly for their looks it is still not attractive if you do not take extra care of yourself.
That does not mean dying your hair fake-black, but it does mean trimming your nose hairs (pivotal), looking after your nails, your teeth which are likely not all they once were, cleaning your ears and generally ageing in a graceful but elegant way that shows you are still retaining your self awareness.
I always seem to date guys between 10 to 20 years older than me, and from my relationships comes some of the best memories and experiences.
I still get the common response from my friends: “He's too old for you! ” I've also had a few people in my life suggest that I do it because I am a “gold digger.”So, the broad answer is this: To clarify, I'm not dating older men because I am a “gold digger.” It's more important for me to pull my own weight and be financially stable.
While it is hard then, you need to learn to be okay with that, or else you might scare them away or be chewing your nails the whole time.
Pay attention to your looks: As you get older your looks will likely become harder to maintain.
Do you need help setting up automatic bill pay or your 401(k)?
Any decently nice guy accumulates ex-girlfriend friends.
Do not look down on their behaviour: They are younger and so it follows they will be less mature.
That means they are going to behave and act differently than maybe you would in the same scenario.
Or, Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones, who are 25 years apart in age?