These will help you through the ups and downs and the little quirks that come with dating a guy who is much older than you.1.
In actuality, this man is spiritually light-years ahead of most of the men (and probably women, too) that I've met before. This is often because he's been there, or somewhere similar, himself; he knows what he needed or would have needed at that time in his life. He has worked through (or at least has working through) most of his issues. For instance, he's not worried when I talk to another guy, nor does he care how many pairs of shoes I have. He He's not going to run at the first chance he gets. Instead, he sits right down and talks it through with me. He supports me wherever I am in my life, and talks me through whatever challenge I am enduring, making sure I have what I need. They have such a great perspective on life that I always value their opinions and ideas.They have always been supportive of my photography and their belief in my talent right back in the early days definitely encouraged me to set up my business.His financial status does not necessarily make him a better person.
This is all to say that money should not be the reason you are dating him and a lack of money is no reason not to date someone.
So – as someone who is undecided on kids of her own, how do you navigate the dating waters with someone who already has kids? It’s better for the kids – and for you – if you and their parent carry on your relationship without their involvement.
Depending on how old they are, they may understand the implications (sex) of dating, and that could be traumatic.
Unfortunately, the older I get the more likely it is that a future partner has children from a previous relationship.
While this scenario has arrived in my life before I expected it to, I’m probably no less prepared for how to respond than I would be five years from now.
It’s great for my health and stress levels to step away from the computer and go and do fun stuff as much as I can and these guys give me a reason to do just that.