But who would really adhere to those rules once you’re already out with that man?
Sometimes, victims would only reach out when it’s too late after a “client” starts to blackmail them.“But they overestimate their ability to control the situation.
They think they are in control of the situation and say they have an agreement with their clients about boundaries and rules.
Yes, there are perhaps some Filipinas who have this reason but not in most cases!
I was already travelling on my own long before I met Jonathan (well, I’ve met Jonathan while travelling! Jonathan and I are both long-term travellers and us living and settling down in the UK couldn’t be further from our minds.
According to social workers, the girls do not think the act is a kind of prostitution as it usually begins not involving sexual intercourse.
In such cases, teenagers rarely seek out help until the point where they have lost control of the situation.I once said to a male expat friend "it's like a smorgasboard for white guys in HK, there are girls everywhere" His reply was, "yeah, if you're only wanting to get laid, there are a lot of girls.But if you want to find a quality, intelligent woman, who's on the same page to have a relationship with, it's pretty hard." So I think both men and women have problems finding a "decent" person to have a relationship with.It would be a fair assumption that your 'highly educated / financially independent / career successful' lady friends would not consider a relationship with a janitor who has a good heart (may be wrong here though = ) ).There is a saying that 'beggars cannot be choosers', so maybe your friends should lower their expectations when it comes to men and they may have more luck!I’m not lucky cuz I’m with a white man – we are BOTH lucky to have each other cuz we deserve the best! Check out our DIY Travel Guides here and for cheap hostels around the world, check the list here.) This is also for all the Filipinas who are being judged for dating a Foreigner instead of our Filipino men!